Doug Apple gives good advice to young women and teen girls. Doug talks about how dressing to attract men's attention really only gets them interested in a woman's body parts, not the woman herself. Surely, this is not the kind of attention she really wants. To be more frank than Doug: Ladies, don't dress like whores unless you want to be treated like whores.
Christian girls and women enjoy blaming men for lusting, but duck their own culpability in the willful temptations they present to men. I would never suggest any less responsibility on the part of the lusting men, but this has nothing to do with women's sinful intent--conscious or otherwise--to inflame men's desires. By analogy, a pedestrian may truly have the legal right-of-way, but stepping into the street in front of an oncoming bus is just stupid.
Developing girls certainly should not be ashamed of their budding femininity, but neither should they be flaunting their wiles as wares. You don't need to hide behind baggy clothing, of course, but you don't need to be baring your midriffs, wearing short shorts, tank tops, skin-tight clothing, or other such clothes designed solely to provoke a hormonal reaction. If you are unsure if your dress is appropriate, ask your father if he'd be okay with you being in proximity to a lusty, dirty, old man while you're wearing that clothing (or a horny, teenage boy, or a sexual predator, etc.). If your father disapproves, then your attire is a recipe for lust.
Aging women stupidly trying to recapture their youth by dressing in tight clothing or baring tantalizing parts--well, these women just look ridiculous, desperate, easy. A woman of any age who shows off her body as if it were a thing to be used and abused, sans intimate soul-and-spirit marriage, may eventually reap just what she sows. In case I'm not being clear enough... If you dress to entice sexually, you are all but asking to be raped. Not that I excuse rape for any reason, but you lose the ethical right to complain when you invite it. If another analogy will help: if you provoke a violent confrontation ending in a defensive homicide (i.e., you killed to protect yourself), you will have lost your legal innocence and are guilty of murder because you provoked it. Likewise, if you invite rape by inflaming lusts--independent of the rapist's guilt--you become guilty before God.
A lady's identity is not to be tied up merely in the sum of her body parts. Were she the only person in all of history, our Lord would still have sent His Son to die a brutal death in order to save her from sin. She is worth that much. Each woman and girl is precious to the Lord; He wants her as His eventual bride. Don't cheapen such immense value by defining your worth by men's lusts.
Parents of girls, don't you dare destroy God's little girls by teaching or even allowing them to be defined so destructively; you will answer for such a crime. Girls, be patient and wait for the Lord to lead you and your future husband together. Trust that He will ignite the passion between you when the time is right; then you can share all of yourself with him. Lastly, men, grow up and control your lust, limiting it to your wife.



If you're a whore
If you actually are a whore and not a Christian, then ignore all this advice. If others begin to dress more obediently, then your services may be in higher demand as lusts are no longer satiated at every turn.